Explore a Memory Prompt – Sensing Form

Explore a Memory

This could be a memory of a person, a specific moment, a location, a tree, an animal friend, any sort of memory will work.

If you are looking to build overall resiliency in life, this exploration can be very helpful – recall one thing that brings you just one ounce of comfort or safety feeling, or memories that you associate with large doses of ‘good’ feeling. As well, you might look for a memory with a neutral quality to it.

If you have experience in this sort of work, exploring more ‘difficult’ feeling memories might help you digest, or integrate, those experiences. If you begin to feel overwhelmed by a memory, that is likely too much for this moment. Working with a run-of-the-mill sort of daily frustration might be a safer place to start. Again, do not dive into difficult terrain if you have not done this before.

1. Be sure to read the advisory notes about the sensing form before you begin (2 min read).

2. Take a moment to bring to mind a memory that you want to work with. Trying to remember nuanced details is often helpful. The sorts of details I mean are, what is the shape of this person’s eyes? Or, how does this place smell? Is the air damp or dry? Can you hear their voice or sound in this place? If you are not able to recall one certain detail, move on, continue to ‘look’ for other details.

Use your mind’s senses to look for as many details as you can find. You do not need to know every detail of this memory. You are just looking for some details to get yourself started. Do this just for a minute or few.

3. As you begin filling out the questions on the sensing form, you may notice that your sensations begin to change. This is normal. You can fill out your form, noting the changes. Or, if you are able and/or if it is helpful to you, you can also ‘re-fresh’ the memory you started with. Do this as often as you’d like.

4. It is often helpful to set a timer. Pick a time that sounds doable/easy for you. 1 minute, 5 minutes, 30 minutes, etc.
If only 1 minute feel doable/easy, you can allow yourself to leave some questions unanswered for this particular session.

5. Have your sensing form accessible and/or a pen in hand.

Set your timer.
Take a moment to ‘re-fresh’ your memory.
Begin.

 

Sensing Form.
1. Location
Where/do you notice a sensation(s) that is ‘speaking up a bit louder’ than other areas?


For example, is it near your spine? On your skin? Behind you? In your belly area? Your brow area? A foot in front of you? Etc. Draw/Fill-in the location that seems to be closest to where you felt/feel this sensation.

 

2. Direction
Is the feeling in this area staying perfectly still? Or is it moving just a little bit, or a lot – in this or that direction?
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to the directionality of your feeling:
zig zag — upward — downward — every direction — spiraling — towards my center — away from my body — hovering in one place — …

 

3. Tempo/Speed
If this feeling is moving/vibrating, what speed does it move, on a scale of 0 = absence of movement – to – 10 = fastest movement you can imagine:
0   1   2   3   4   5   6   7   8   9   10
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to the speed of your feeling:
frozen lake — old TV static — deer in headlights — gentle stream — storm winds/electric storm — dead or sleeping body — plants buds in spring — like a snail moves — pouring molasses — …

 

4. Other qualities of this movement/vibration?
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
elevator — bike ride on bumpy street — stop-and-go traffic — ice skating — flopping — floating — lightening bolt — bungie jump — like falling boulders — person getting an electric shock — stubborn donkey — ‘good’-tingly — hum/buzz — rhythmic/arrhythmic — …

 

5. If you imagine/touch-feel this feeling or lean your weight on it, what is it like?
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
plastic — concrete — mud — sandpaper — fog — elastic — wood — brittle — moist soil — fleshy — soft — coral-like — sparkling — fragile — solid –…

 

6. Flavor
If you could taste/imagine what it might taste like,
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
bitter — mellow — moldy — chocolate — metallic — warm — acidic — round –…

 

7. Color
Was there an element of color present in the feeling you are investigating?

Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
glitter-sparkling — like sunlight — black but with swirling streaks — like a shadow — red –…

 

8. Temperature
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
sauna — warm blanket — ice — refreshing/cool –…

 

9. Sounds/Words
Are/were there any internal sounds, words, or thoughts which seem to be related?
Circle, cross out, or add any words that apply to your feeling:
oh! — noooooo! — erghhhh! — closer. — sigh. — yes! — shwooooooosh! — that way! — …

 

10. More?
Did you find any new realizations or did any remembered-realizations pop up for you?
Is there anything you found that feels important to remember (for today, this week, this month, etc)?
Did anything shift in how you understand/feel how your emotions-body-thoughts relate to each other?
Anything more?

 

Try other prompts here. To talk with others about this, share some part of your experience, or what-have-you: Sensing Form Forum.

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A similar style exercise to these Sensing Form Prompts – and a resource that has deeply helped me in my life and inspired my work – is E. Gendlin’s Six Steps/Focusing.